Saw this on Reddit, stupid website does not allow me to embed the image.
This happens more often than I can logically expect and I have yet to comprehend the logic behind why it happens. I have a small list of people who I think were close, well beyond the two weeks and this still happened. More often than not I can be "okay" with that. It's like fine you don't want to talk to me anymore that's a loss for both of us. But what tends to get to me is the question of why. There have been many times when I know I had it coming. I voiced an opinion and they didn't take that very well. Besides that I rarely do anything outright offensive. I have hobbies and interests that no everyone agrees with but it doesn't come up because I know to avoid it.
I know it is a traumatizing experience because it just makes me wonder when it would happen again. It makes me sigh because I think it is a loss of a wonderful "connection" of mutual interest where we can easily waste time.
I do wonder what it's like to be in their shoes. How it feels to have the desire to sever connections and burn a bridge. What drives someone to think everything that could have been said was said and now you are of no interest to me. The closest I have been to experiencing that mentality was with people who were not on the same page and had a different approach to things. Those differences made interactions more of a chore than an enjoyable experience. How things changed I am not sure but I sure hope I don't do that.
I know it is a traumatizing experience because it just makes me wonder when it would happen again. It makes me sigh because I think it is a loss of a wonderful "connection" of mutual interest where we can easily waste time.
I do wonder what it's like to be in their shoes. How it feels to have the desire to sever connections and burn a bridge. What drives someone to think everything that could have been said was said and now you are of no interest to me. The closest I have been to experiencing that mentality was with people who were not on the same page and had a different approach to things. Those differences made interactions more of a chore than an enjoyable experience. How things changed I am not sure but I sure hope I don't do that.
