You know what's been eating at me? Cleaning. It's not like okay we will clean and this will be good. Or perhaps lets work on this together.
No it's huffy whiny muttering under your fucking breath things like damn fuu shii and silent cussing constantly. Guess what that happened at work and all weekend at home. I can care less at work. The worst that can happen is we will end up missing stuff that's needed later and it doesn't matter because it doesn't pay to be prepared there. One time we were looking for software and all the disks were "sorted" last time so we didn't have anything left. No matter.
I know clean feels good and hoarding is bad. But this is a weekly deal. EVERY FUCKING WEEK we go through this shit. You should try to be happy.. maybe learn to deal with shit instead of taking it out on the door.