To the table

I saw this online and it got me thinking.  This mallard DOES make a good point.  I need to evaluate what a girl can bring to the table! I joke a bit because it is something I should consider about myself and not use as a basis for judgement.  It is so easy to get lost in the idea of how great a girl is on a superficial level.  Stupid hormones.

When I look at profiles online I do look at what a girl can potentially offer.  But I don't think it will ever be a significant point of focus.  I know the well educated ones have a strong potential to have a significantly higher income than I would have, but they also have a strong potential of having a significant amount of debit. I know a more extroverted personality has the potential of broadening my perspectives. Sounds funny but I can only think of so many things to do and that's generally a positive.  However that often comes bundled with things like greater difference in social life and potential for drama.  I have things that just aren't listed but I know are good.   But I also know I don't have much to offer beyond that.  That lack of "creativity" can mean a boring, unromantic start (well it will never start).  What I consider stable may be considered boring and unambitious by women.

Lots to ponder about hmm